Having crushes on everyone you encounter makes it impossible to tell who's a good catch from who's just a fling. You date a lot of duds because you move rapidly with those you like. If you slow down this month, you'll find your partner faster.
Do you like this person because they like you or because they complemented your outfit and listened to your jokes? As you date with more intention, you can screen out the jerks who waste your time.
You have great intuition. Trust your instincts when someone seems untrustworthy. The issue is not always following your gut. Give individuals "the benefit of the doubt," but it only lets hurtful people into your life who take advantage of your delicate heart.
If you follow your gut this month, you'll find your partner faster. Your ideal companion will make you feel warm and complete, not alarming. Why not simply focus on folks like that?
Many of your former relationships—which you don't want to repeat—left you feeling invisible. Your ex-s didn't notice you. Your ideal companion will notice your large and small qualities.
You'll be seen working hard and helping your home and community. They'll recognize when you're worried and need support without asking. In September, look for "noticers," sympathetic folks who can sense others' vibes. Your soulmate is among them.
You may be bold in other areas, but not in approaching people you like. You'll crush on someone for months or years until they act or you lose interest.
You're right to be cautious to tell them how you feel—it's scary to take that risk. Never trying is also a mistake. Starting to date actively this month will help you find your love. Talk to people, flirt, and act. Otherwise, you may miss someone special.